Things aren't perfect. They never are. Situations never present themselves in an easy fashion. There are ALWAYS forms of obstacles in the way. Whatever your obstacle may be, rather than shutting down and giving up... look for ways to overcome that obstacle. Pray- but don't expect God to hand you the answer. Get out there and create your own destiny with His guidance! If it's meant to be, it will happen! Even more than that... the more you have to overcome... the SWEETER the VICTORY!